From there this dysfunctional woman took over my mother's memorial in addition to the already 50,000 memorials she has under her belt. The info on him was compiled by several members, and info from members of the Montgomery county Md. My parents and grandparents memorials were hijacked by Patsy Lubben DiMarco. It requires patience. Again, it's only a website overrun by volunteers so move on. To find cemetery records for New York in the FamilySearch Catalog follow these steps: Go to the FamilySearch Catalog Enter: New York in the Place box Click on: Search Click on: Cemeteries To search for cemeteries at the county level follow directions below Go to the FamilySearch Catalog Enter: New York in the Place box Click on: Search Sad, because I do not want to return to the site now. So I am very sorry for your loss, as I still have not gotten over mine, fortunately for me, I now have a nine year old granddaughter from my For more information about the cemetery or burials within it or buying a plot, you should contact the cemetery directly. Whether that is seen in person or photographed and posted online, I guess I don't see the difference. No materials from this website may be copied, reproduced, republished, uploaded, posted, transmitted, or distributed in any way. "Be mindful of what you say and you must have respect dealing with this." . Nasty sorry this happened to you it certainly shouldnt happened. I have been a member of find a grave since it first started. My mother-in-law's site is totally inaccurate; says where she's buried. Find a Grave is a volunteer project. Search consumer complaints, reviews and information about find-a-grave. I respect a families wishes whenever possible but in this instance it appears it was his daughter wanting it removed although her siblings wanted it to stay. You can customize the cemeteries you volunteer for by selecting or deselecting below. Contributors need to respect that, Desired outcome: If you have questions, please contact [emailprotected]. Well for all the money findagrave is apparently making if they want my help fulfilling the hundreds of requests in my local graveyard then they'e going to have to pull some money out of that old sock and put up. Please, get your morals together, get in touch with reality, and then get back to me and clear up what you have stated. Visit Website Email this Business (919) 862-3704 This business has 0 complaints File a Complaint Burial Assistance Delivery Service Monuments Caskets Overview Never Forgotten Memorials delivers. You wrote: BBB Scam Tracker Still Need Assistance? They were being my managed by Patsy Lubben DiMarco who IGNORES transfer requests. the important is all funeral and headstone photos must be authorized and legitimate and the owner let you use. I take GREAT pride in linking people with their deceased family members to connect these families, piece them back together, after death. Find contact information for federal, state, and local government officials. Read full review of Find A Grave and 1 comment. Not everyone who takes photos of graves is unwilling to respond. and your account will be suspended. Sad life when people have nothing better to do with their time. A gentleman named John has added the below message concerning my mother.I and my brothers and sisters would like this to be deleted out of respect for our mother.I don't accept that an outsider can access documents and without family consent write what they deem necessary.We cannot even contact this John.Would you please delete this information.There is a family behind this message and who live to this very day thinking of their mother who was taken from them so early in life.Authorisation was not given for this message to be inserted. Thanks for your help! Find a Grave singles out only certain people. Find A Grave deceptive, rip off, scam Salt Lake City, UT. Findagrave has mounted information against my permission, and I'm having to retain an attorney because of find-a-grave's unscrupulous behavior. What burns me up is when people sitting at home are too lazy to go out and take real photos and instead make a memorial from an obituary with useless or private information about the deceased and family members and add the obituary photo of the deceased. This includes both general and info of a more private nature that most families do nor want published on the net. Their top contributors do not research people. aged 43, married I would say that many members provide relevant information and are not "collectors" of graves and the service they provide in invaluable. Begin your search by either entering the cemetery name and location (by city, county, state, or country), or you can browse cemeteries by location. A person by the name of Joan Donnelly Ellis stole my partners photo from the funeral home web site and changed the obituary, she had no business doing that. God bless you all ! Wow! There is a contributor on here named Running Deer who has created a memorial for a nephew of mine. As for putting personal information on a memorial, unless they knew the person it can't be any more personal than what is public knowledge from the newspaper, an obituary, etc. Unlike Western thought Mormons do not believe in a trinity and some deny Christ as the son of God. MANY people are SEARCHING for their relatives, and they can not afford to fly to every cemetery in AmericaThank God people CARE ENOUGH to go to the cemeteries and take pictures, and post them on the ONLY FREE SITE of it's kind, find a grave! I only record what is mentioned on the stone. More precisely people who want to create a memorial for a deceased loved one. I already had a memorial created soon after my nephews passing. This review was chosen algorithmically as the most valued customer feedback. I am sorry that your loved one has passed. You must include a valid cemetery ID or URL. I took a picture of that visible headstone and attach it to the memorial I did not delete someone else work that is totally disrespectful. I only post a headstone photo that I personally have taken and sometimes link a person to a spouse. Translation on Find a Grave is an ongoing project. Find A Grave - Access to findagrave and a complaint about a comment left on a findagrave page. What I do know is this tracking down ancestor graves is HARD work. you have no right to privacy. Meanwhile, I'm calling findagrave now. SO HELP OUT! It is owned by Ancestry.com. Seriously? This commonplace.Memorial Park themed cemeteries. I do not just run through grave yards and posts memorials for people I do not know or am related to. compete on how many records make is useless. I can see why they dropped you. Gin, if Find A Grave has taken over management of your memorials, your account has been shut down by Find A Grave. Megan Heyl to give my son back. yes ask findagrave admin delete that photo. Interesting. Same thing, been on there 18 years and they suddenly said I was inactive, (I had just added 500 memorials in last 30 days) no I was very active, tried to log in but can't they won't send an email to reset password, and in looking I see that [censored] now has management of all my memorials and in last 24 hrs have given almost 50 away. I can spend DAYS combing a cemetery with over 15, ooo headstones to find just one. The new "Complaints" page was created by the same person, Mr. Pritchard, who contributed the 13 complaints. This person will not answer my emails and the police have located him. In other words, if the contact person is "not accepting messages, " and they do this intentionally, you won't be able to reach them, to request management control. ^^^^^Seems to me that they are taking advantage of the people doing the photography. Why would anyone think it's OK to post biographical information like this about an 8 year old? There is a problem with your email/password. In many cases these ghouls comb local obits and reprint them on Find A Grave. this fraud is a sociopathic means of lying and a person getting their false praise and getting money for their prostitution. I understand why it is a blessing to some people, however it does in fact invade the privacy of many families. If you not wish photo being shared, dont put" who never knew her. It is in fact not precious hard work, it is simply walking around and taking pictures of graves. internet is free to use. This will surely increase the credibility of your complaint. People like that just want to get numbers and be big on the web site. For more than 15 years we have helped nearly 50000 customers resolve their issues and will never stop striving to ensure further improvements on our platform for a better communication between companies and customers. You don't not belong on complaintsboard. I don't love how Find A Grave is run and it irks me that much of the information on the site is really terribly inaccurate, but presented in a manner that makes many people take it as fact, and impossible to correct or contribute to with the territorial attitude that the managing of memorials seems to foster. My last name - there only 7 of us suppose to be as.Actually only 2ofbus and the rest wife and children. Q: Where did you see anything at all, ANYWHERE, about Find A Grave themselves "saying" they "award points"? I don't see the point in the complaint. If that means I have a rock to mark my burial site, so be it. Running Deer creates a duplicate, and I told him this was a friend of mine, Then Running Deer refuses to take his memorial down and reported mine as a duplicate. If you don't like it, just log off. I have sent this person several messages and no response there will be action taken against her too. son. I started on there when it first started as a way to link my family and friends family for future generations, but once they started making it a contest it became distasteful and grotesque. Truly pathetic. Anyone who makes a free FindAGrave account can add memorial pages. So you consider adding a memorial on there before the person is even buried as empathetic? They're making a tidy bundle off of your work. For all legal purposes, it is not your loved one, it is a memorial for your loved one. Learn how to play nice. This is an ethics issue here ! Some people do not want their family members in the site, and its not your God-given right as a volunteer to ignore that. I have complained to Find A Grave several times about misinformation on my family site (father, grandfather, grandmother and great grandparents) and use of their head stones without my permission. These ghouls harvest photos from non private trees and then post the info on Find A Grave. My computer system is set up to alert me if something downloads without my permission so it was caught almost immediately. Submit a complaint and get your issue resolved. If you do not want others to see you name or your daughter's do not put it on the stone. I have no way to access to my account. It was founded in 1995 by Salt Lake City resident, Jim Tipton. Share your photos and videos with others to prove the truth of your words. Her brother, Peter Maher, of 14 Shanowen Road, registered her death. After reading this post I know now who killed Vaudeville, Forest Lawn/LA (the cemetery of the stars) have a policy regarding photos. Hi Sharon! Oftentimes, there is information about about other members of that persons family included. Often obituaries are no longer findable, after a certain length of time. I am having trouble, I manage several of my family graves and I am not able to log in and no one is returning my emails, I haven't been able to find a phone number. The faithful go there to have extended families, extended spouses and an eternity of children/ For those who don't make it there a lower levela work camp of sorts kind of like a purgatory. Desired outcome: And daily scanning of obituaries to add and having 200k memorials? So Ancestry is breaking Find a Grave's guidelines. Not just steal. I have a good clue who is doing this to our flowers we leave on confederate veterans memorials. everyone should be equal and should have privacy. com. I haven't had any problems with anyone or them, so don't have a clue what is going on. Instead, FindAGrave turned the memorial over to one of their major contributors, a Megan Heyl on the grounds she was the expert concerning my family. This website uses future generations as an excuse to take photos of children, babies, adults, of all ages and post them online. Jul 19 2017. The person who has my grandparents on his list of memorials has 25, 000 and has been there for 15 years. Resend Activation Email, Please check the I'm not a robot checkbox, If you want to be a Photo Volunteer you must enter a ZIP Code or select your location on the map. they will ban her. Youll find helpful information about your account here or you can use this form to send us questions about account issues. waste of taxpayer money. Then they boot you out or ban u. FindAGrave also threatened me with legal action if I took it any further. So much unneccesary stress its to the point I consider suicide. Ask the Community "How do I?" questions about the Find a Grave website. She refused. Findagrave has a rule, family and friend of dead can report stolen headstone photo to findagrave staff and staff can remove the page down and suspend that member (Creator), your daughter photo is not their property but your property, this site has problems of using other person photo.